Does social media help or hurt relationships?

Platform has proven to be a happy place in good times, a nightmare during breakups:Couple browses online together
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Does social media help or hurt relationships?

One minute, lovers are #couplegoals online, the next they are washing dirty linen

Breakups are hard and sometimes we just want to vent about our relationship struggles, even if that isn’t the brightest idea.

Sometimes people post subliminal messages on social media, like ‘God come through’, hoping their significant other will read them. But sometimes things get messier, and they just air their dirty laundry for all their friends to see.

Now imagine if you were a celebrity telling the world your business? Way more complicated!

There have been some messy relationship issues brought out by celebs via social media that seem to hurt their relationship.

While most relationships posted on social media seems to be working, there is also the negative side to exposing private lives online.

Couples like the WaJesus family have been revealing a lot about their life on social media, and trolls have not spared them.

Cyberbullying is an occupational hazard for most Kenyans in the limelight, and as a much-adored celebrity couple, Milly and Kabi wa Jesus have had their share of it.

In an interview with Radio Jambo, the popular YouTubers said the worst they have ever been told on social media is when they were about to reveal the gender of their child.

Milly narrated that netizens came up with controversial stories about the gender reveal, with the worst being that they would give birth to an abnormal child. It is for this reason that the WaJesuses held back from revealing the identity of their son, Taji Reign.

When DJ Mo and Size 8’s marriage hit the rocks a few weeks ago after DJ Mo’s alleged side chick emerged, the couple suffered a backlash from the same social media where they parade their good times.

In an interview with Word Is, Size 8 said her family is no longer moved by trolls as she decided to focus on the positive side of life.

Diamond Platinumz sister Esma Khan separated with her three-month husband over his newfound love for social media.

And in an interview with Wasafi TV, Esma said she yearned for a private marriage.

“I stopped posting him on Instagram and he started DMing bloggers to post him. He disappointed me. It means he is inboxing many other people.”

Esma added that she didn’t want an Instagram man. “If I wanted that, I’d look for that. That will destroy our marriage. So I decided to leave him with his Instagram,” she said.

“I wanted my marriage to be private, not out there. I want to live my life and publicise my business. I have spoken to him many times about this but he didn’t listen. That is what he loves. I don’t want him to be fighting with people on social media.”